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Top Secrets You Shouldn't Hide From Your Divorce Lawyer

26 September 2022

Arthur Young

Most couples experience a wide range of emotions as they get divorced. It's common to feel sad, bitter, angry, and embarrassed, especially over personal details regarding the separation or marriage. Regardless of how you feel, you should remember your divorce lawyer needs to know everything about your life. 

Withholding information will make it difficult for the lawyer to protect your interests. Besides, you are protected by the client-attorney privilege, so your secrets will not be shared with other people. Here are some sensitive details you should tell your divorce lawyer.

Mistakes You Made in Marriage

Usually, it takes two individuals to end a marriage. Most people find it easy to share details about their spouse's wrongdoings and keep their mistakes a secret. It's alright to do this when sharing information with your friends and family. However, you should disclose all your misconduct to the divorce lawyer. Revealing your weakness may make you feel uncomfortable, but lawyers have probably dealt with cases like yours.

Domestic Abuse in Marriage

If your partner is violent or abusive, you may hesitate to share the information with others. Most people assume that disclosing details of domestic abuse will result in revenge from the abuser. Even if you cannot tell your relatives and friends about the abuse, don't hide the information from your lawyer. This way, they will offer guidance and ensure you're protected. 

For instance, they can get you a restraining order and find another way to serve the divorce papers to your spouse. You can even sue your ex during the divorce for the suffering, pain, and medical costs.

Financial Constraints

Separating from your spouse can be costly, particularly if you have children or haven't put your finances in order. Don't hide these facts from the lawyer, even if you don't have the funds to pay for the service. Divorce lawyers understand that some clients face financial challenges caused by divorce. So, if you are honest, the lawyer will work out a payment arrangement. They will ensure you get child and spousal support with your ex. If you hide your financial situation, getting assistance won't be easy.

An Affair

If you cheated on your spouse, you might be ashamed to discuss your secret. The same may also apply if you want to leave your spouse to be with the affair partner and wish to get divorced before your spouse knows. Whether your spouse knows about the affair or not, share these details with your lawyer. If you fail to share the information or deny the affair and the court learns you withheld information, you will look untrustworthy. Your credibility will be questioned until the divorce is finalized.      

Reach out to a divorce attorney to learn more.

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